Lifestyle

In some parts of Nigeria, widows are still being humiliated, dehumanised and abused via various degrading customs, rites and rituals.

As the world celebrates Widows Day, staff reporter, Abiodun Akinluwa examines the plights of widows.

International Widows Day is a global awareness day taking place annually on June 23rd.

It was launched by the United Nations in 2010 to call attention to the violation of human rights that widows suffer in many countries following the death of their husbands.

In some parts of the country, widows are still made to go through all manner of ill-treatments rooted in cultural and traditional practices that dehumanise them. 

They are treated with no respect, suffer social exclusion, hunger and poverty along with their children while some were driven to suicide.

Speaking on this, an Akure-based journalist, Mr Ayodeji Moradeyo and a human right activist, Mrs Olamide Mary Falana condemned the untoward attitude of Nigerians towards widows.

Religious leaders, Imam Abolaji Kazeem and Pastor Remi Adesonmoye described as ungodly the treatment being meted on widows.

An official of the Ministry of Justice in Ondo State, Mrs Bunmi Arajuwa said there were extant laws protecting the rights of widows.

The wife of Ondo State Governor, Mrs Betty Anyanwu-Akeredolu has however taken up advocacy and campaign to share information on the rights of widows and collate their data with a view to helping them.

It is expected that, members of the society can also make a difference in restoring the hope of widows after the demise of their husbands in line with this year’s International Widows Day theme which is “Invisible Women, Invisible problems”.

Abiodun Akinluwa

Lifestyle

Wife of the Ogun State Governor, Mrs Bamidele Abiodun wants the society to rise in support of widows and protect them from harmful practices. 

Mrs Bamidele made the call in Abeokuta during an empowerment programme in commemoration of this year’s International Widows Day.

Mrs Bamidele Abiodun (l) with some of the beneficiaries at the event

Speaking on the theme of the year’s commemoration, “I am Generation Equality: Realizing Women’s Rights”, Mrs Abiodun advocated greater commitment to recognizing and protecting the rights of widows in the society. 

The governor’s wife emphasised the need to assist the group of vulnerable women in alleviating some burdens placed on them by tradition and ensure their access to education, decent work and training opportunities. 

The event featured presentation of work tools, including sewing machines and hair dryers as well as food items and cash to representatives of widows groups from the three senatorial districts of Ogun state. 

Addressing the beneficiaries, the Commissioner for Women Affairs and Social Development, Mrs Funmi Efuwape, encouraged them to take advantage of the gesture to improve their status and make a positive impact on their families.

According to the Press Officer, Office of the First Lady, Mrs Kemi Oyeleye, one of the widows, Mrs. Dupe Balogun from Ifo Local Government Area, while speaking on behalf of the beneficiaries expressed appreciation to the governor’s wife and prayed for the success of the present administration.

Oluremi Olugbenro